I’m in love with my boyfriends brother. I can’t stand my boyfriend but if I don’t stay with him I can’t hangout with his brother. Sometimes I have to pretend my bf is his brother just to get through intimacy with him. They are 10 years apart the brother being older. We have been together for 4 years. My boyfriend is one year older than me. I love him but everything wrong with him his brother does right. He won’t get a job and seems as if he doesn’t care about anything. His brother is extremely hard working and wants a girlfriend to settle down with. I wish I had never met my boyfriend and met his brother instead.